A female college student comes to the counseling center and tells the nurse she is afraid of her boyfriend. She states, "He is so jealous and overprotective; he wants to know where I am and who I'm with every minute." Which of the following is most likely true of the situation?

Choice A reason: Jealousy, possessiveness, and controlling behaviors are hallmark signs of the tension-building phase in the cycle of violence. This phase precedes acute violence and is characterized by increasing control and intimidation. Choice B reason: Labeling the boyfriend as insecure minimizes the seriousness of abusive behaviors. Insecurity does not justify controlling and threatening conduct. Choice C reason: Suggesting the student is overreacting invalidates her concerns and ignores warning signs of abuse. This response is dismissive and unsafe. Choice D reason: While a restraining order may eventually be necessary, the situation described is still in the tension-building phase. Intervention at this stage focuses on recognition and prevention before escalation.