A nurse is caring for a child who has terminal cancer. Which of the following responses by the child's school-age brother should the nurse expect?

A) Regresses to an earlier developmental level: While it is possible for a child to show some regression in behavior when faced with a stressful situation such as a sibling’s illness, school-age children are typically able to understand more complex concepts. Regression to an earlier developmental stage is more common in younger children (preschool-age) rather than school-age children, who are more likely to express their emotions in other ways. B) Alienates himself from his peers: While the child may experience feelings of isolation or withdrawal due to the stress of a sibling’s terminal illness, alienation from peers is not the most typical or immediate response for a school-age child. It is more common for children of this age to seek comfort and support from peers, though they may struggle with how to discuss their feelings. C) Believes that his brother's death will be reversible: At a school-age level, children generally begin to understand the permanence of death. While younger children may have magical thinking that could lead them to believe the death of a loved one could be reversible, this is not the expected response for a school-age child. By this age, children typically comprehend that death is final, although they may struggle with the emotional aspect of it. D) Believes his bad behavior is causing his brother's death: This response is the most typical for a school-age child. At this stage, children often have a sense of responsibility for events around them and may develop feelings of guilt or magical thinking, where they believe their actions or behavior contributed to the illness or death of a loved one. This belief is part of the normal coping process but needs to be addressed in counseling or with support from caregivers to help the child understand the situation and alleviate any misplaced guilt.